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Disciplining
children has long been one of those subjects
that no one seems to agree on. Up until
recently, I only had a passing interest
in it though there was no doubt that I had
strong opinions. I don’t believe in
beating any child, however an appropriately
delivered spanking when earned, certainly
should not be out of the question. This
is true whether given by the parents (preferred)
or by proper authorities within the school
system. Believe me, when I was in school
‘getting a swat’ was one heck
of a deterrent. What’s sad is that
of late, is that because of those few who
go overboard in the use of this type of
discipline, more often we’re finding
parents afraid to use it for fear of being
accused of child abuse. And as for school
officials, forget it unless you want a lawsuit.
So how is a ‘trouble child’
to learn if there are no consequences for
their actions?
Admittedly this is a difficult subject for
me to completely identify with because I
was never a ‘trouble child.’
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I was never into drugs or alcohol, I didn’t
beat up other kids, I didn’t shoplift and
I certainly never brought a gun to school. My
parents were pretty open with me and allowed me
to stay out late because I had earned their trust.
Don’t get me wrong, I could backtalk with
the best of them, but when I went too far I could
be assured of getting a belt across my bottom.
I didn’t like it then, but I’m appreciative
of it now.
My interest increased over the last ten years,
in part because my wife was the mother of a 3-year
old boy at the time we met (he’s now 11),
and even more so because we now have a 15 month
old little girl now. I had a lot to learn about
disciplining, and though I’m sure I didn’t
make all the right choices, I can only hope that
most of them were. But now that I have a daughter,
it feels like everything has changed and I have
to learn it all over again. Here’s hoping
I get it right for her sake.
As for the answer to my earlier question, “How
is a ‘trouble child’ to learn if there
are no consequences for their actions?”
Well, at least what I think might be part of the
answer… it would have to be by teaching
respect through fear and intimidation. Keep in
mind that I don’t recommend this for every
kid; after all they are all different and respond
to different forms of punishment and reward systems.
This is just for the ‘hard cases’.
Those whose paths seem destined for disaster.
Documentarian Chuck Braverman chose this as the
subject of his 2000 film “High School Boot
Camp.” In it, he follows the experiences
of a group of boys who spend five months at Eagle
Academy, a military style boot camp for teenagers.
From the opening sequences of the boys as they
ride the bus into the camp, you know they are
not in for a good time. They are immediately met
by bellowing drill instructors that have no hesitancy
about getting right in the student’s faces.
The idea is to teach these kids by pushing them
to their limits, both physically and emotionally.
Tearing them down in order to build them up.
It’s a controversial method to be sure,
but no more so than the “Scared Straight”
program that brought juvenile delinquents into
an actual prison to go face to face with hardened
criminals, most of whom were in for life. That
was another program I heartily agreed with. “High
School Boot Camp” pulls no punches and even
though the five month stay had to be edited down
to a ninety minute running time, it still delivered
an unflinching look at the experiences several
of the boys have while staying at the camp.
Whether or not you agree with the program the
question is, does it work? From the way the film
is presented, you get the impression that it does.
It’s when you get to he extra features that
one has to wonder. The filmmaker’s commentary
is pretty straight forward, and while Braverman
touches on the subject at hand, he more so talks
about how he went about filming the project, and
what kind of equipment he used. The extra feature
I recommend checking out focuses on “where
are they now” and re-visits some of the
boys we followed through the film. Needless to
say, some of the results were less than stellar.
In spite of some of these results, I would still
have to say that I agree with most of the methods
used in this program. We are living in tough times;
probably the most difficult that it has ever been
for children. The crime rates amongst children
is growing and as these kids are getting tougher
(even to the point of killing each other), we
have no choice but to employ tougher methods.
Even if this program is only able to help one
kid get his life back in order, then wouldn’t
that one kid consider it a success?
Directed by: Chuck Braverman
Extras: Filmmaker Commentary, Additional Scenes,
“Where Are they Now” Updates, Filmmaker
Biography and Filmography
Specifications: Dolby Digital Stereo
Studio: Docurama
Release Date: 11/30/2004
Region 1
MPAA Rating: NR
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We'll give High School Boot Camp an A.
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